The vows are the most important part of the wedding, in fact, they ARE the wedding! Your guests are coming to be witnesses to the promises you will make to each other! But what if you want to write your own vows? Where do you even begin? Writing your own vows allows you to add a personal element to your promises. There are no set rules you have to follow when writing your own vows, it’s simply you just telling your spouse what you are committing to. Here are a few tips to help you get started!